Wrapped Around Your Finger

When you first meet someone that you may be interested in dating, the person pretty much tells you what you want hear to keep you interested. They act a certain way and behave how they think you would want them to. So basically once you start dating your relationship is just discovering who the other person really is. Once you see their true colors is when you decide whether or not to break up or stay together. Now if you want your man to stay read on.

I would suggest girls...that you not change at all from the moment he meets you to four months down the road. There should be no drastic personality change, for instance from sweetheart, to jealous-bitch. So if that means be yourself and hope he likes you for who you are so be it. If you think he wouldn't like your promiscuous skanky side then maybe it's time for a change. Remember the line "fake it till you make it"? Try that. If you think the guy is worth it, try cleaning up your act.

Don't ever get too comfortable with your man, you need to keep him chasing you at all times. All men have ADD if your man gets bored he'll find someone else to excite him. So make sure you still doll yourself up for him, even if he tells you that you don't have to and that you are beautiful the way you are. It's sweet but don't believe it!!! Believe me he is not saying he wants you to wear sweat pants and hoodies with your hair in a messy bun and no make up on all day.
The first time he saw you, you were probably in your cutest outfit, hair did, nails done, make-up just right. So you want to remind him of that. Every guy likes their friends to think their girl looks hot, so if his friends ever start telling him you're a train wreck he might consider leaving you.
So again never let yourself go!

Also don't be afraid of looking like a fool if he wants to go out and do karaoke and you are a terrible singer, he will admire you for being brave, and out-going enough to go up and sing. So just have fun with it, whatever it is and keep smiling. He'll remember why he is so much in love with you. Keep in mind men hate girls who bitch and complain all the time, so keep it to yourself.

Now everyone knows the most important thing you need in order to have successful and functional relationship is trust. So make sure you never lie to your man no matter what it is because things have a way of surfacing. And even the smallest lie can ruin a great relationship. So don't lie about how many people you slept with because girl, you know he done slept with twice as many people as you anyway, don't lie about your age, don't lie period! Soon enough your man will be wrapped around your finger.

"The most expensive thing in the world is trust, it can take years to earn and just a matter of seconds to lose. To regain some one's trust is priceless."-Christina Pagliarulo